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Kathleen Anne (Kuhlow) Gray

Born: Thu., Jan. 30, 1964
Died: Thu., Dec. 13, 2018


7:00 PM to 9:00 PM, Wed., Dec. 19, 2018
Location: Saint's Peter and Paul Catholic Church

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 AM Thu., Dec. 20, 2018
Location: Saint's Peter and Paul Catholic Church

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Kathleen Anne Gray


     Kathleen Anne Gray, 54, of Palmyra, passed away on Thursday, December 13, 2018 at her home.    

     She was born on January 30, 1964, in Suffern, New York, a daughter of George Arthur Kuhlow and the late Carolyn Elizabeth (Herbke) Kuhlow.

     Kathleen worked for the Lake Monticello Food Lion where she currently served as the Chief Cashier.  She was a member of Saints Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Palmyra.  As an advocate for the Knights of Columbus, she helped coordinate and organize several events for families in need.  She helped direct many fundraisers for battered woman and their families.  In addition to being a humanitarian, she was an animal lover, a loyal New England Patriots fan, enjoyed games and above all enjoyed spending time with her family.

     Survivors include her father: George Kuhlow; two daughters: Jennifer Gray Salvo and husband, Sam and Danielle Gray and fiancé, Joseph St. Amand; three sisters: Antoinette Labinski and husband, Kyle, Marie Ransom and husband Scott, and Judith Lena; two grandsons, Levi and Carter; and numerous nieces and other family members and friends.    

      A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 am, Thursday, December 20, 2018 at Saints Peter and Paul Catholic Church with the Reverend Gerald Francis Musuubire as the Celebrant. 

      The family will receive friends for a time of visitation and a Prayer Service from 7:00 until 9:00 pm at the church on Wednesday evening, December 19.

     In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Nicholas Learning Center: 4309 Thomas Jefferson Parkway, Palmyra, VA 22963.

     Thacker Brothers Lake Monticello Funeral Home is handling the arrangements.  Family and friends may share memories and photos at www.thackerbrothers.com.

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   Posted Mon December 17, 2018
Keep on shining Jenni... she did amazing job raising you i know this because when I starting working that crazy 2nd shift at Charlton you helped me and you were new too but it didnt matter others were too busy to help too stressed ... I love you... never lose your shine and i know you wont your mom will always be with you! Other family and friends memories!!!

Maggie and Jim Cullinan
   Posted Mon December 17, 2018
Our heartfelt condolences to the Kuhlow family. You are in our prayers for comfort during this difficult time. We will always have wonderful memories, especially of her smile, laugh and kindness to all.
Love, Maggie and Jim Cullinan

Alice and Raymond Murphey
   Posted Tue December 18, 2018
Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy to the entire Kuhlow family. May we all follow her example of caring for others and may your unfailing Christian faith support you through this difficult time. Her love for each of you was obvious and profound. You could not be in her presence five minutes without a story about either a sister, Dad, "my girls" or her sweet grandsons. She was truly a lovely person inside and out and surely leaves many wonderful memories with each of you. God bless you all.

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